A recent report from The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy found that about 20% of teens (ages 13-19) and a hard to fathom 33% of young adults (ages 20-26) have shared nude or semi-nude images of themselves either over cell phone text messaging or by posting on the internet. A bit surprisingly teen girls are a little more likely to do this than boys and a very disturbing one in ten young teen girls (ages 13-16) admitted to sending inappropriate images of themselves.
The Nielsen Company and the Pew Research Center reports indicate a handful of factors that should be troubling to parents and guardians. There is a rise in the number of young people that use cellular phones, the amount of texting they do, and potentially much more serious the percentage of teens that participate in “sexting” – the sending of provocative images or text messages from cell phones.
What’s the fuss? Just innocent fun, youth discovering their new sexuality?
You might want to reconsider. Sending a sexually explicit image of someone underage might be a sex crime. Teens are getting themselves arrested, going to court and are being required to register as sex offenders. They are gambling with more than emotional distress and humiliation, charges of sexual misconduct can result in getting suspended and expelled from school, losing scholarships, and losing jobs. A felony conviction can also affect future job opportunities, such as those offered in law enforcement and other high-security clearance positions.
Consider that if a sixteen year old sends a sexting image of themselves - they could be violating child pornography statues in most states.
A conviction in criminal court for “sexting” will result in other serious consequences. In addition to the potential jail sentence and/or fine imposed by a judge, they may be required to register with the Sex Offender Registration Board for the next 20 years. Additionally, the felony court may order the surrender and destruction of the computer or digital devices used.
As sending SMS text messages from cell phones has become a centerpiece in teen social life, parents, educators and advocates have grown increasingly anxious about the role of cellular phones in the sexual lives of young adults. A fresh survey from the Pew Research Center’s Internet & American Life Project (pewinternet.org/topics/Teens.aspx) determined that four percent of cell phone using teenagers between age 12 and 17 indicate they have sent sexually suggestive nude or nearly nude images or videos of themselves to other people using SMS text messages. This activity is commonly known as “sexting” in the current slang. Additionally, fifteen percent say they have received such images of someone they already know by way of SMS.
According to a report from marketing research firm The Nielsen Company (blog.nielsen.com/nielsenwire/online_mobile/under-aged-texting-usage-and-actual-cost/) American young people transmit an unbelievable average of 10 SMS messagesSMS texts per hour that they are not in school or sleeping – and most likely a lot during school too!
By researching over than forty thousand monthly US mobile phone bills, Nielsen found that American teens sent an average of an astonishing 3,146 texts each month during the third quarter 2009.
Their younger counterparts aged nine to twelve sent about 1,100 texts each month. That that averages out to about four per hour they were in school or not sleeping. In comparison, the average number of monthly texts sent by all mobile phone users collectively was just slightly above 500. In the fourth quarter 2009, tweenage users aged nine to twelve increased SMS usage by 8% just about doubling the quantity of text messages.
Pew Research points out that sexting happens usually during one of three specific scenarios: The first, sharing of images solely between two romantic partners; the next, lists exchanges between partners that are then shared with other people; followed by, exchanges between people who are not yet in a relationship, but with one person hoping there will be one hopes to be}.
Teenagers were interviewed and provided Amanda Lenhart, Senior Research Specialist and author of the report numerous reasons behind the impulse to get involved with sexting. These included the researcher’s interpretation that “…sexually suggestive images had become a form of relationship currency,”; that sexting images “… are shared as a part of or instead of sexual activity,” and that SMS text message sexting is a way of starting or maintaining a relationship. Sensitive images are also passed along to other people “… for their entertainment value, as a joke, or for fun.”
Teens also shared with researchers the peer pressure to share sexual images. Not surprisingly the report also reveals that youths that are intensive users of cell phones are more likely to to be sent inappropriate images. For these youths, the phone has become such an important conduit for communication and content of all kinds that turning it off is unlikely.
The desire for risk-taking and sexual exploration during the teen years mixed with regular connection using mobile phones and other mobile devices “…creates a ‘perfect storm’ for sexting,” said Pew’s Amanda Lenhart. “Teenagers have always grappled with issues around sex and relationships, but their coming-of-age mistakes and transgressions have never been so easily transmitted and archived for others to see.”
Despite some indications that per user usage has peaked, Nielsen forecasts that overall text messaging usage will grow as the avid user population ages and entices the older generations to text with them in order to keep in contact with them. Current SMS users will continue to text extensively and as tweenagers age they will increase usage. The number of text messages sent per capita has grown every year and should continue.
If you’ve got kids then you’re probably not surprised by the usage numbers. But chances are you’re also either in denial that your children are involved in sexting, or you’re actively seeking solutions to the problem. In all probability most parents don’t believe their kids are involved with sexting, or they are looking for ways to find out. While parents may be upset that all the texts their teens and tweens are sending are going to break the bank, Nielsen research shows the average cost of a single text message is just one cent. The real issue affecting families is not so much how often teens use their phones but has more to do with how they use their phones, and when they are texting.
Sexting is an extremely complex topic. Consequently, it is very difficult to provide advice on how best to manage these situations. The National Center For Missing & Exploited Children policy talks about that there are four roles to every sexting case: the individual seen in the image, the person who took the photo, the distributor(s) of the picture, and the recipient(s) of the image. In some cases one person may assume more than one of these roles (e.g., a youth takes a sexually explicit picture, of herself and sends it to a classmate). In other situations, multiple people may take on a single role (e.g., a child takes a sexually explicit picture of himself and sends it to a classmate who then forwards the photo to the entire high school senior class). It is important to think about the intent and motivation of each of the parties in every situation.
The National Center For Missing & Exploited Children suggests parents monitor cell phone use. A practical technological solution available for parents and guardians to find out what teenagers are doing~what’s going on with their children} is mobile monitoring software.
Celebrated rights attorney Gloria Allred addressed the legal consequences of “sexting” that parents and teens may not know:
Teens conducting “sexting” activities – those that send and receive sexually explicit images, are at risk of potential felony charges for child pornography OR criminal use of a communication device, and in some states, face the exposure of having to register as a sex offender – a disgrace that could follow them for the next twenty years.
Not only do teens who conducting “sexting” face the {very real prospect of criminal prosecution and the prospects of going to jail and/or probation, which will potentially remain on their criminal record for the indefinite future, they also face the prospect of the possibility of being required by the Court to register as sex offenders.~This stain has [terrible~horrific] consequences for youth including [required~mandated] reporting of the sex offender in various public records and very burdensome notification requirements that the sex offender must comply with – which may remain with the sex offender for the rest of his/her life.}
Sexting might very well be illegal. Parents are responsible to do something about it. Particularly considering low cost solutions can be ordered over the internet. A very good software package that includes remote control of device settings, and combines Phone GPS Tracking with SMS text message, Call Log, MMS multi-media message monitoring, and an online account for archive and review is PhoneBeagle.
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